p. For example, it is not unusual for the initiator to experience fear, relief, distance, impatience, resentment, doubt, and guilt. Likewise, when a party has not initiated the divorce, they may feel shock, betrayal, loss of control, victimization, decreased self esteem, insecurity, anger, a desire to «get even,» and wishes to reconcile.
3. Children and bringing up
America is a country of immigrants. And the views of the citizens of the United States (including the views on the family and children) were formed on the basis of the colorful and diverse culture of different nationalities and under the influence of the environment and history of the USA.territory of the United States, was originally a British colony. For a long time the basic mass of the white pioneer were puritans, representatives of religious communities, which were persecuted by the state and the Church of the UK [11, p. 54]. People moved from England to America with purpose of realizing their views of social, religious and political institutes. Puritans were characterized by individualism, relying on their own strength, faith in their special mission, as well as high moral standards in everyday life, diligence, honesty, self-restraint. These qualities helped the pioneers in the development of America. They also influenced on the formation of the American nation and American character. Children of migrants received an upbringing that was built mainly on the fundamental biblical and family values. Most of the schools were faith-based and belonged to one or another religious community. In addition, there was a network of Sunday schools. In remote areas, where representatives of confessions could not get due to the great distances, people were reading and discussing the Bible and other spiritual literature.considerable part of the American population lived in rural areas, on the farms, which were at a great distance from the cities and from each other. And in difficult situations families couldn t wait for help from anyone. So American children were raised so that they could face any difficulty, protect themselves and help their parents. Parents cultivated courage, strength, the ability to make rational decisions, ability to stand up for their families, love, freedom and self-confidence. Almost the same characteristics were important for girls because while woman was without a husband, she had to perform all of its obligations. So, the ability to handle weapons, ride and other typical male skills were in favor among young ladies.course, ethnic and racial portrait of the US since the time has significantly changed. However, the Puritan morality and values ??of the first settlers continue to influence on the American models of family and education [12, p. 45]., Raising a child is the hardest, most responsible and satisfying task any American citizen can face. It «s also the job for which people receive the least formal training.person» s knowledge of how to bring up a child usually comes from their surroundings and their own upbringing. This may result in patterns from the parent «s own social experiences being repeated and passed on to their children.American in the upbringing of a child, parents play a very vital role. But anomalies arise, when the role of the parents are not set out right. It has been the long held view that in the bringing up of a child, the mother reser...
